(Search your profile names in Here. it's either you dont have many wins to be on the ladders or there is some glitch that link tells you which place you are i think.(links to Age of empires community - Ladders) if its vanilla, go here)
Sorry but i forgot to see that this thread was in Aoe:O section but as far as im aware, i dont think there is any search function but i think you can see you or your friend's stats.
I don't play on eso anymore. Gameranger and Hamachi.